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23 If you sit down to eat with a ruler,
    notice the food that is in front of you.
Control yourself
    if you have a big appetite.
Don’t be greedy for his fine foods,
    because that food might be a trick.

Don’t wear yourself out trying to get rich;
    be wise enough to control yourself.
Wealth can vanish in the wink of an eye.
    It can seem to grow wings
    and fly away like an eagle.

Don’t eat the food of selfish people;
    don’t be greedy for their fine foods.
Selfish people are always worrying
    about how much the food costs.
They tell you, “Eat and drink,”
    but they don’t really mean it.
You will throw up the little you have eaten,
    and you will have wasted your kind words.

Don’t speak to fools;
    they will only ignore your wise words.

10 Don’t move an old stone that marks a border,
    and don’t take fields that belong to orphans.
11 God, their defender, is strong;
    he will take their side against you.

12 Remember what you are taught,
    and listen carefully to words of knowledge.

13 Don’t fail to punish children.
    If you spank them, they won’t die.
14 If you spank them,
    you will save them from death.

15 My child, if you are wise,
    then I will be happy.
16 I will be so pleased
    if you speak what is right.

17 Don’t envy sinners,
    but always respect the Lord.
18 Then you will have hope for the future,
    and your wishes will come true.

19 Listen, my child, and be wise.
    Keep your mind on what is right.
20 Don’t drink too much wine
    or eat too much food.
21 Those who drink and eat too much become poor.
    They sleep too much and end up wearing rags.

22 Listen to your father, who gave you life,
    and do not forget your mother when she is old.
23 Learn the truth and never reject it.
    Get wisdom, self-control, and understanding.
24 The father of a good child is very happy;
    parents who have wise children are glad because of them.
25 Make your father and mother happy;
    give your mother a reason to be glad.

26 My son, pay attention to me,
    and watch closely what I do.
27 A prostitute is as dangerous as a deep pit,
    and an unfaithful wife is like a narrow well.
28 They ambush you like robbers
    and cause many men to be unfaithful to their wives.

29 Who has trouble? Who has pain?
    Who fights? Who complains?
Who has unnecessary bruises?
    Who has bloodshot eyes?
30 It is people who drink too much wine,
    who try out all different kinds of strong drinks.
31 Don’t stare at the wine when it is red,
    when it sparkles in the cup,
    when it goes down smoothly.
32 Later it bites like a snake
    with poison in its fangs.
33 Your eyes will see strange sights,
    and your mind will be confused.
34 You will feel dizzy as if you’re in a storm on the ocean,
    as if you’re on top of a ship’s sails.
35 You will think, “They hit me, but I’m not hurt.
    They beat me up, but I don’t remember it.
I wish I could wake up.
    Then I would get another drink.”

Saying 7

23 When you sit to dine with a ruler,
    note well what[a] is before you,
and put a knife to your throat
    if you are given to gluttony.
Do not crave his delicacies,(A)
    for that food is deceptive.

Saying 8

Do not wear yourself out to get rich;
    do not trust your own cleverness.
Cast but a glance at riches, and they are gone,(B)
    for they will surely sprout wings
    and fly off to the sky like an eagle.(C)

Saying 9

Do not eat the food of a begrudging host,
    do not crave his delicacies;(D)
for he is the kind of person
    who is always thinking about the cost.[b]
“Eat and drink,” he says to you,
    but his heart is not with you.
You will vomit up the little you have eaten
    and will have wasted your compliments.

Saying 10

Do not speak to fools,
    for they will scorn your prudent words.(E)

Saying 11

10 Do not move an ancient boundary stone(F)
    or encroach on the fields of the fatherless,
11 for their Defender(G) is strong;(H)
    he will take up their case against you.(I)

Saying 12

12 Apply your heart to instruction(J)
    and your ears to words of knowledge.

Saying 13

13 Do not withhold discipline from a child;
    if you punish them with the rod, they will not die.
14 Punish them with the rod
    and save them from death.(K)

Saying 14

15 My son, if your heart is wise,
    then my heart will be glad indeed;
16 my inmost being will rejoice
    when your lips speak what is right.(L)

Saying 15

17 Do not let your heart envy(M) sinners,
    but always be zealous for the fear of the Lord.
18 There is surely a future hope for you,
    and your hope will not be cut off.(N)

Saying 16

19 Listen, my son,(O) and be wise,
    and set your heart on the right path:
20 Do not join those who drink too much wine(P)
    or gorge themselves on meat,
21 for drunkards and gluttons become poor,(Q)
    and drowsiness clothes them in rags.

Saying 17

22 Listen to your father, who gave you life,
    and do not despise your mother when she is old.(R)
23 Buy the truth and do not sell it—
    wisdom, instruction and insight as well.(S)
24 The father of a righteous child has great joy;
    a man who fathers a wise son rejoices in him.(T)
25 May your father and mother rejoice;
    may she who gave you birth be joyful!(U)

Saying 18

26 My son,(V) give me your heart
    and let your eyes delight in my ways,(W)
27 for an adulterous woman is a deep pit,(X)
    and a wayward wife is a narrow well.
28 Like a bandit she lies in wait(Y)
    and multiplies the unfaithful among men.

Saying 19

29 Who has woe? Who has sorrow?
    Who has strife? Who has complaints?
    Who has needless bruises? Who has bloodshot eyes?
30 Those who linger over wine,(Z)
    who go to sample bowls of mixed wine.
31 Do not gaze at wine when it is red,
    when it sparkles in the cup,
    when it goes down smoothly!
32 In the end it bites like a snake
    and poisons like a viper.
33 Your eyes will see strange sights,
    and your mind will imagine confusing things.
34 You will be like one sleeping on the high seas,
    lying on top of the rigging.
35 “They hit me,” you will say, “but I’m not hurt!
    They beat me, but I don’t feel it!
When will I wake up
    so I can find another drink?”(AA)

Footnotes

  1. Proverbs 23:1 Or who
  2. Proverbs 23:7 Or for as he thinks within himself, / so he is; or for as he puts on a feast, / so he is