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The Proper Use of Speech[a]

Whoever gloats over evil will be destroyed,
    and whoever repeats gossip has no sense.
Never repeat gossip,
    and no one will reproach you.(A)
Tell nothing to friend or foe;
    and unless it be a sin for you, do not reveal a thing.(B)
For someone may have heard you and watched you,
    and in time come to hate you.
10 Let anything you hear die with you;
    never fear, it will not make you burst!
11 Having heard something, the fool goes into labor,
    like a woman giving birth to a child.
12 Like an arrow stuck in a fool’s thigh,
    so is gossip in the belly of a fool.
13 Admonish your friend—he may not have done it;
    and if he did, that he may not do it again.(C)
14 Admonish your neighbor—he may not have said it;
    and if he did, that he may not say it again.
15 Admonish your friend—often it may be slander;
    do not believe every story.
16 Then, too, a person can slip and not mean it;
    who has not sinned with his tongue?(D)
17 Admonish your neighbor before you break with him;
    and give due place to the Law of the Most High.[b](E)

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Footnotes

  1. 19:5–17 An excellent commentary on bearing false witness (Ex 20:16; Dt 5:20). Ben Sira speaks harshly about calumny, rash judgment, and detraction (vv. 5–7), and urges discreet silence (vv. 8–12). Justice requires that an accused neighbor be given a hearing, and charity urges fraternal correction; both together fulfill the law of the Most High (vv. 13–17); cf. Mt 7:1–2; 18:15–16.
  2. 19:17

    Other ancient texts read as vv. 18–19:

    18Fear of the Lord is the beginning of acceptance;

    and wisdom from him obtains love.

    19Knowledge of the Lord’s commandments is life-giving instruction;

    those who do what pleases him will harvest the fruit of the tree of immortality.